it's been a busy week with a packed weekend planned. let's see if i can get through all of this (translation: go fetch a fucking coffee - it's going to be a long post)
so, if things weren't clear in post 90, yes: i fucked the bi girl sunday night, despite the fact that we never actually left her place and go out as planned. and yes: it was weird and awkward for me (and i think her as well - she said it had been like, 6+mos since she'd had sex. strangely, princess was also coming off of something like an 8mo hiatus the first time we hooked up).
as i said, we were talking and just kept talking and never left. after a few hours of discussion and getting closer and closer, we started talking about kinks and bondage and fun stuff like that. a pause. i leaned in and started kissing her. we kept at it for a while. she made some movements to indicate she wanted her top off. i obliged. i was a little shocked that she was a bit thicker than i had expected. but, we were both having fun, so i looked past it (dammit... great conversations turn me on so fucking much). there was some kissing and biting taking place. she was obviously up for more, so i slipped down to the floor and positioned her so that i could get her pants off and started going down on her. she was definitely into that.
after a while, she started pulling my shirt off and i laid on the bed unsure of where things were going, since i figured we were going to stop there? a mediocre back rub for me was up next. then she indicated that she wanted to reciprocate. not bad... things were winding down, so we cuddled for a bit. it became very obvious pretty quickly that she was trying to position herself to slip me inside of her. i was still a bit on the fence, so i told her that if she wanted to fuck, i'd have to run to the car to get some condoms. she popped into the next room quickly and came back with a few. it was settled. it was interesting. she was really into it & very enthusiastic about it. as an added bonus, she wanted me to finish in my preferred manner. that was nice!
yeah, that happened. in total i was over her place for almost 8hrs and we spent at least 4.5 of them fooling around. age (and first times) have certainly brought the gift of endurance.
a couple of days later, i was out with a buddy of mine for an event & i noticed munchkin (from posts 70 & 72) was there. there was a pretty awkward set of eye-contact exchanges... i was trying to be sure it was her & i think she was a little shocked to see me.
after the event, i decided to walk up to her and see if it was, in fact, her. i lightly touched the back of her arm as i said "o hai!" and she turned around and immediately hugged me. we started chatting. she said that she had a bad experience w/ a crazy stalker dude and had to cancel her account on the dating site we were on. we briefly caught up a bit and talked about events that we've been to and plan on going to. we said we should get together again.
i text her the next day saying that it was great to see her and we should get together. she was totes into it. we agreed to go to the ballet on sunday (coming up tomorrow - since it's technically saturday as i'm writing this) and out for dinner after.
just like that, this gorgeous, interesting woman that i was pretty interested in about 2mos ago fell back into my life. i'm really hoping things go better than last time (i.e.: we don't fall out of touch & things work out... maybe even some real dating stuff!)
thursday night, i was supposed to go out w/ the bi girl again. she messaged me during the day saying that she wasn't feeling well and wanted to cancel. i said that was fine and told her that i hope she feels better soon. friday morning i tried to message her and see how she was doing. she never replied. and i always thought it was the guy who was supposed to freak out and try to avoid the girl after weird, awkward sex....
also on thursday, i decided to message a^4 about a couple of events coming up today (saturday - more on those in a bit) and see if she would care to join me. she never replied. then, in a freaky, weird coincidence, she popped up broadcasting being free that night on the locals feature of the web-dating site we use. i msg'd her that i'd be out for coffee and reading until 2200 & i'd like for her to join me if she didn't have anyone else to do stuff w/. her profile (i didn't check it, but i get basic status info in message previews) indicates that she's now single - not "seeing someone" anymore - so that's a thing...
friday, #1 took me out to lunch as a belated birthday present. that was nice of her.
today, i'm planning on going to a couple of events. one is on the process of turning a written script into a font. i'm still on the fence as to if i'm going to go, since it's fairly early in the morning. in the evening, i'm going to an event called "speak easy: true stories, told live" that looks really interesting.
ballet & dinner sunday.
rest of the week: empty other than job searching stuff... the one w/ the local PD that i felt semi-confident on told me that i was one of over 145 applicants when i followed up with them during the week. that certainly doesn't give me the warm and fuzzies.
and now, we're all up to date.
*hugzes!*
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